Saturday, February 25, 2012

Vote for Phil and Shawn as Your Favorite Wings of Love Wedding!


Check out our wedding album at Colin Cowie Weddings and then vote for us as your favorite wedding!  You can vote every day until March 2, 2012!

Also, join our Facebook Event that's going on from now until March 2.  Click here to join!

Tell all of your friends and family!!

xoxo

-Phil



Wednesday, February 15, 2012

We're Married!

Much has occurred since my last post asking people to vote for Shawn and me in Colin Cowie's "Wings of Love" contest...

During the second week of January 2012, we were told that we were one of the four couples who won weddings atop the Empire State Building.  AMAZING!  The next month flew by!

In that month's time, Colin Cowie's "Wings of Love" hosted three other contests to choose the following

  1. Our wedding bands from De Beers 
  2. Our reception menu by Mary Giuliani Catering & Events
  3. Our flowers by Grymes Cannon Designs
We were extremely pleased with the winning choices!



Jump to February 10... we met the other winning couples at a ring fitting event at De Beers.  The other couples were so nice and the De Beers staff were very helpful.

February 13... Rehearsal.  The nerves started.  THIS IS REAL!  We had photos taken with Colin Cowie at the observation deck of the ESB.  We also met Holly Robinson Peet and Rodney Peet who presented at the ESB's Light Ceremony.  We also had pictures with them!  Facing a wall of photographers was a new experience.

February 14... Wedding Day!  It was a whirlwind of day, for sure! The limo picked us up at 8:30am.  We arrived at the ESB and immediately had our make-up and hair done.  I've never felt so pampered before! :)  We had a beautiful wedding ceremony officiated by celebrant Kim Kirkley.  Kim captured the essence of our relationship!  After the ceremony, our guests went to our reception while Shawn and I went up to the ESB's observation deck for photos.  We also had a champagne toast with Colin Cowie!  Afterwards, we went to our reception for a delicious meal by Mary Giuliani Catering & Events.  The music, food, wedding cake, and overall party theme were beyond our expectations!  Colin Cowie's wedding theme for us was "Indochine".  Sophisticated... beautiful yet masculine.  We could not have asked for or imagined anything more wonderful.   

Getting married atop the ESB during the first year legalized same-sex marriage in NY was an amazing experience.  Shawn and I are very thankful for the opportunity and are extremely happy to share our day with our family and close friends.

Well, this is just a brief description of our wedding to get people caught up on the Wings of Love contest.

Find more information at ColinCowieWeddings.com.

You can also find pictures at the following Facebook pages:

And check out the television news stories:


  

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Colin Cowie: "The Wings of Love" Empire State Building Contest Continues!!

Vote for Phil & Shawn to win a Valentine's Day wedding atop the Empire State Building in Colin Cowie's Wings of Love contest!   


Vote at: http://apps.facebook.com/colincowieweddings/contests/166579/voteable_entries.


Here are some additional pictures that I used on Facebook to remind friends to vote:








And I thought this one was too racy for Facebook:

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Colin Cowie: "The Wings of Love" Empire State Building Contest Continues!!

Vote for Phil & Shawn to win a Valentine's Day wedding atop the Empire State Building in Colin Cowie's Wings of Love contest!

Vote at http://apps.facebook.com/colincowieweddings/contests/166579/voteable_entries.















Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Colin Cowie: "The Wings of Love" Empire State Building Contest

Shawn and I entered a contest to win a wedding at the top of the Empire State Building.  We have been chosen as one of the 16 finalists for the "Wings of Love" Empire State Building contest. 


PLEASE VOTE FOR US!!! You can vote once per day from now until JAN 1!

PLEASE tell all of yo
ur family and friends to VOTE FOR US to become one of the lucky four to win the wedding. Email them! Text them! IM them! Tweet them! Phone them! Share this link with them!

VOTE VOTE VOTE!!!!

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Siri


I got an iPhone 4S in October. I'm fascinated at how smart Siri is!


Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Dear Fire Island Pines,

As the last 'summer' weekend in Fire Island Pines draws to a close, I'd like to reflect on the good times had. Friday's in the Ice Palace in Cherry Grove, Low-Middle-High Tea in the Pines, 4th of July, The Pines Party, and Ascension weekend. But most of all, we had another great year with the housesmates: Patrick, Tim, Jerry, and Icarus as well as seeing many other friends at Tea, house parties, and and various events. Walking Teddy on the beach on Saturday mornings was always relaxing... the beautiful beach is unmatched in the northeast.

Today (Tuesday, August 23, 2011), the weather reached 80. Low humidity, calm winds, and blue, blue skies. The ocean is calm and blue. And we had a bit of excitement feeling tremors from an earthquake that centered in VA. But that didn't detract from the magical feeling in The Pines.

Thanks for another wonderful summer. See you two more times in September!

xoxo

-Phil & Shawn

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Lasted 4 Days

Well, I lasted until Wednesday evening. I'll have to try again...

Monday, April 18, 2011

Another Attempt

Last cigarette: April 16, 2011 @ Noon. Very tempted to buy a pack yesterday. Today is the true test... first work day!

Thursday, September 02, 2010

Goodbye Crystal






Today, Crystal died. She was 13. She was a good cat. She had been ill. It looked like she was getting better, but then she took a turn. I will miss her.

Crystal had been sick... throwing up almost every day. Earlier in the summer, the vet found a growth in her stomach and we were treating it with medication. We thought she was getting better because she stopped throwing up and had a healthy appetite again. About a month ago, she started throwing up again and the vet prescribed another medication. A few weeks ago she started eating less. She really didn't each much since last Friday. And then she stopped eating all together. Our cat sitter tried baby food and she wouldn't eat it. I tried giving her some treats and chicken breast that I blanched in water, and she wouldn't eat it. I even tried giving her some shrimp. She tasted it and spit it out. She looked weak and lethargic. The vet took x-rays and saw 2 more growths in her stomach. Also, the stomach walls were thicker than normal. So she was starving. And her liver stopped working so she was jaundiced. Her system was starting to shutdown. Putting her to sleep took her suffering away. Shawn was in the room when the vet euthanized her.

We adopted Crystal and her sister, Kira, at Petco in Union Square, Fall 1997. An animal shelter has a section where pets can be adopted. We saw Crystal first and Shawn held her so no one else could adopt her. During that time, we were looking for a second kitten. Kira was meowing much in her cage and scratched up one of the workers when she tried to take Kira out of he cage. We were reluctant to adopt her. In the end, we did and I am so happy we did as she is a very affection (albeit shy) cat.

It was cute seeing Crystal and Kira play as kittens. Our old apt had a staircase and once they got acclimated to the apt, they would run up and down the stairs. It was cute seeing them groom each other and sleep with each other. They were both shy around visitors. Crystal less so. She would make her way out of hiding.

Crystal was a well-behaved cat. Never bit or scratched. Let me brush her and cut her nails. When she was hungry, she wouldn't meow as Kira did. Instead, she would jump on and off the bed or couch... wherever Shawn and I were. Think of it as a double team... Kira made the noise and Crystal caused the distraction. Crystal and Kira liked to sit with us when we watched TV. Kira usually sat with me and Crystal sat with Shawn. Same routine every night. When I came home from work, both Crystal and Kira would meet me at the door. Hungry of course.

I will miss Crystal. She was such a good cat. Poised... She sat like a statue. Like a crystal statue. Front paws together and tail wrapped around. I have very fond memories to keep with me.

Today, it's not smoke in my eyes... it's tears.



Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Domestic Partnership!

Today, Shawn and I went to City Hall and got our Domestic Partnership for the City of New York!

Sunday, August 23, 2009

August 2009 Vacation

Shawn and I are on our last day of vacation. We've been in FIP for 10 sunny days...

Friday, August 14:

We left Manhattan around 8:45am. Traffic into the Midtown tunnel was bad. But we didn't hit any traffic in Long Island! Shocker! We stopped at Stop'n Shop for groceries and made it to the 11:30am Sayville/FIP ferry. We had ham and cheese roll-ups for lunch. We laid by the pool all afternoon soaking up the sun. For dinner, we decided to make chicken breasts because we didn't know if Patrick or Tim would be able to make it for dinner. Turns out, Patrick had the day off and arrived on the 1:30pm ferry. Tim couldn't arrive until Saturday. Well, i brined the chicken breasts and added pineapple juice to the mixture. I let it sit for several hours. We attended Low Tea so that we could wave "hello" to the people arriving on the evening ferries. Then went home to make dinner. I also made a pesto pasta dish with homemade pesto. I used bow-ties (farfalle). I also made a salad with a homemade vinagrette. I added a teaspoon of soy sauce as recommended by Melissa d'Arabian (the current Next Food Network Star winner.) After dinner, we watched a few episodes of "The Big Bang Theory" and went to bed.

Saturday, August 15:

I woke up around 9am. We didn't do much besides read news on the internet and get caught up with friends status' on Facebook. That had become our morning ritual during the week! Patrick and I walked Sammy and Teddy on the beach. The beach was gorgeous. And very flat. Great for walking and running. I don't remember what we ate for lunch... I think we had sausages. Yes, come to think of it, we ate sausages. Oh... and I made a pesto pasta salad! How could I forget that! Again, we laid by the pool. Drank cocktails. Attended Low Tea. Tim arrived as we headed to Low Tea. He dropped his bags off and met us there. We skipped Middle and High Tea. For dinner, we had pork loin, brocolli rabe, and salad. After dinner, we watched a few more episodes of "The Big Bang Theory" and went to bed. Tim wanted to go out, but we were all too tired.

Sunday, August 16:

Ascension Party! The annual beach party sponsored by Erik von K who owns much of the commercial property in FIP. Story goes.... he wanted FIPOAA to move the Pines Party to the day so it wouldn't compete with Pavilion. Well, FIPOAA didn't move the party and the feud started. Erik started his own beach party to compete. Now both parties have their pluses and minuses.... dancing on the beach under the stars or under the sun?? Both are a lot of fun! Anyway, we arrived around 1pm and walked through the giant "A" at the enterance. We danced until it closed at 6pm. Fortunately, the party was just one Walk away, so we could easily go home and come back. The sun was shining brightly and there wasn't much of a breeze in the main dance floor area due to the VIP areas blocking the breeze. But there wasa nice breeze near the enterance where they laid sod and built two reflecting pools. Some party goers went into the ocean to cool off. The beach around the party was packed, too. Cute boys on the beach, in the water, and on the dance floor! :) We saw a lot of old friends and met some new friends. Tony Moran spun a fantastic set. And Kelly Rowlands sang two songs. Dean and Dan invited us over for dinner afterwards. Their guest Hoong made a tasty pasta sauce that he slow cooked all day with country ribs, sausage, and meatballs. Coincidentally, I was telling Tim that I was craving it before I knew that we were going to have it... I felt like cooking that same pasta sauce! We didn't stay very long because we were all tired from dancing under the hot sun all day. We went home and went right to bed. No Pavilion for us! Only downside to the day... Patrick couldn't join us. He had to work on Monday. So he departed on the 4:50pm ferry.

Monday, August 17:

Jerry arrived on the 11:30am ferry. Tim and I greeted him with a cocktail! We ate burgers for lunch and lounged by the pool with cocktails. Jerry made tasty margaritas! We went to Low Tea which was still pretty busy. What did we eat for dinner?? I remember we had asparagus as a side. Tim wrapped them in ham and swiss cheese. I made the salad. What was the protein?? Ribs! LOL. That's right. I asked Jerry if he could make ribs! Unfortunately, the cut of ribs was not very good and the ribs were a bit of a disappointment. (Flash forward to Tuesday.... we ate the second rack for lunch and the meat was much better! Mm mm.) After dinner, we watched a few more episodes of "The Big Bang Theory" and went to bed.

Tuesday, August 18:

Tim had to work, so he got up early to drive back to Manhattan. As I mentioned earlier, we ate the leftover ribs for lunch. We had bought two racks but only ate one rack on Monday. The second rack was much better than the first. Again, we lounged by the pool and drank cocktails. Shawn, Jerry, and I went for a walk along the beach. The beach was still gorgeous. Later, we went to Low Tea and stayed until the 7:30pm ferry arrived (close to 8pm.) Yong was on board. We met him at the harbor and walked him to the house. We had chicken parm for dinner. Yummy... the chicken had our special ingredient: bacon! The nice, thick bacon from the Meat Market. After dinner, we watched a few more episodes of "The Big Bang Theory" and went to bed.

Wednesday, August 19:

Hump day! Our vacation hit the middle mark. Earlier in the week, we had talked about going to Cherry Grove for lunch. But we had so much chicken parm left over. So we had chicken parm sandwiches for lunch. We lounged by the pool again and drank cocktails. Jerry made pina coladas (and a virgin one for Yong.) We skippped Low Tea. We invited John and Billy over for dinner. They still had one housemate, Luciano, and one guest, Tom. So we invited them, too. Yong made a lovely dinner. He roasted two whole chickens, butterflied. He used a Gwyneth Paltrow recipe. The chicken was so moist and tasty. Yong also made a side salad and grilled asparagus. Oh... and there were roasted potatoes baking with the chicken. We ate outside. A lovely evening despite the mosquitoes! After dinner and the guests went home, we watched more episodes of "The Big Bang Theory" and went to bed. BTW, fresh produce is really lacking mid-week in FIP.

Thursday, August 20:

Jerry left on the Noon ferry. He needed to get back to run errands and prep for the "Who Wants to Be A Millionaire" test. Yong made chicken salad sandwiches for lunch. Yong and I took a nice walk along the beach. The surf was starting to get rough due to Hurricane Bill in the Atlantic. We lounged by the pool a bit more. Yong took the 6pm ferry home. Shawn and I skipped Low Tea. We bought NY strip steaks at the Pines Meat Market. Prime cut... dry aged. So good. Shawn grilled them to perfection! I made a squash gratin (with gruyere cheese) and salad. We finished watching "The Big Bang Theory" series. And we also watched the most recent episode of "True Blood". We also watched the latest Terminator movie. I wasn't bad.... except for the hokey ending.

Friday, August 21:

We had another lazy day by the pool. We had sausages for lunch. We bought pork chops for dinner. They were cut for us at the Pines Meat Market. Unfortunately, Tim and Patrick couldn't make it. Wicked storm hit the area... but bypassed FIP! Dark clouds approached around 5pm, but quickly disapated. The sun returned quickly! FIPOAA had sent a warning about swimming in the ocean due to riptides. Hurricane Bill is coming up the coast! We went to Low Tea and then came home to grill the pork chops. Again, Shawn grilled them to perfection! I made the romano cheese and black pepper pasta dish. And we had a caesar salad. We fell asleep in front of the TV. We're such old farts!

Saturday, August 22:

Shawn and I walked to check out the beach. The smell of "ocean" was extra strong today. Due to Bill, high tied had covered the entire beach and there was a lot of water still collected. At Beach Hill, you would have to walk through the water to get onto the beach. And the volleyball area was still under water. The surf was VERY rough! Patrick arrived on the 11:20am ferry. We had a hodge podge of stuff for lunch. Patrick ate the extra pork chop, I ate a sausage, and shawn ate a ham and cheese sandwich. Patrick and I walked to the beach. The water was nice yet rough. There were signs warning against going in the water. And Patrick noticed the nautical flags signaling "hurricane". Tim didn't end up coming out. He called and said he woke up with a cold. Shawn and I went to Justin's birthday party at Reflections. We chatted with friends and had a good time. On our way home, we stopped at the Pantry. Later on, we went to Low Tea. Afterwards, we stopped at High Tea for a drink. But then quickly moved to Middle Tea. As usual, Middle Tea was packed. We left around 9pm. For dinner, we had rib eye steaks that Patrick brought. Almost 1 lb each! So much and so delicious! I made the same pasta dish again, but added too much pepper this time. I made a side salad. We also had corn on the cob and fennel. Both grilled. We had so much leftovers. Shawn went right to bed. Patrick and I watched the latest episode of "True Blood" and then went to bed.

Sunday, August 23:

It is now Sunday morning. A cloudy morning. A nice way to end our vacation in FIP. We had a lot of sun. A lot of fun. The week certainly flew by. I'm thinking that we should take the 1:50pm ferry home. It makes me a bit sad to reflect abou the entire week. Vacation is coming to an end. Back to reality. Oh well, we couldn't enjoy things like this without working.


Oh... and I am still smoking. In fact, Icarus bought me a carton of cigarettes from Duty Free. $13!

Saturday, October 04, 2008

A Setback

I had a setback this week. Bought cigarettes. But I had an excuse. My dad was admitted to the hospital on September 25 and passsed away on September 28. My brother and I had to make a lot of arrangements in a short time. The Viewing service was on October 2 and we burried my dad on October 3.

But I plan on getting back on the wagon!

Saturday, May 31, 2008

Still on track!

I haven't had a cigarette in over a month now.

I do think about it... a few times a day. But the desire is much less. I've been with friends who are casual smokers. Fortunately, they weren't smoking at the time. Otherwise, I might have asked for one!

Sunday, May 11, 2008

15 Days

well, it's been just over 2 weeks without a cigarette.

i still have the desire at certain trigger times during the day... mostly during the workday. so fortunately, it's not a constant urge.

Monday, May 05, 2008

7 Days

The last time I had a cigarette was April 26, 2008. It was just after dinner.

I hadn't been feeling well for the entire week before hand. And I was thinking that smoking was making me feel worse. Well, on April 27, I really felt awful. So I just stayed in for 2 days and didn't smoke at all. On Tuesday, I found out that I had Strep throat! So (along with the antibiotics), I decided to continue not smoking.

Well, it's been 7 days now.

There are some tough times. But when those moments pass, I'm fine until the next moment.

Hopefully, I can keep it up!!!

Monday, January 14, 2008

Work...!

Well, I thought, perhaps, that I could have my last cigarette on Saturday night before dinner. I didn't really crave one after dinner. On Sunday, I had some thoughts. But not nearly strong enough to want to have one. On Monday, I thought about it on my way into work. Walk to subway -- fine. Walk from subway to office -- fine. Around 9:30am, I thought about it. Thought about it again... and again. By 10:30am, I caved in and bought a pack.

Argh!

Tuesday, January 01, 2008

Happy 2008

January 1, 2008! Wow... 2007 passed so quickly. Each year passes faster and faster. But don't most people say that? I have a theory... the brain slows so that time appears to be going faster.

This may be my time to finally quit smoking. Well, that's what I've been thinking over the past month. Maybe I am in that right state of mind to do so.

If not, maybe I'll ramble about other things...

Monday, February 20, 2006

Where has the time gone?

Happy Presidents Day!

Wow. It's been almost a year since I first tried to kick the habit!! I didn't realize it until just now when I signed onto this blog. The first post was in March 2005! Where has this year gone?!?

Well, it's time to try again. It's been pretty cold outside and it's not that pleasant to step outside for a smoke. Cutting back on Roxy Saturday nights ought to help!

I had 2 cigarettes today. The last one was at about 4pm. The pack was finished! I bought Commit again to help me through this.

So, wish me luck! I hope the work stress levels are tolerable and that I don't run out and buy a pack of cigarettes.

-Phil

Thursday, November 10, 2005

Baby steps

I've decided to cut back on the cigarettes before stopping completely. I had been smoking about 1/2 pack a day. That's about 10 on the average. I smoked 6 on Tuesday and 7 yesterday. I haven't been feeling like finishing them either. That's another strategy... not finishing them all the time. We shall see...